Maybe you've never even asked yourself who you are as a person, but in this period it may be for you, and relevant, especially if you have a vague sense that something in your life is lacking.Lack of communication and a sense of loneliness
After some time, the absolute happiness of motherhood on Russian women sitting at home with the child, often comes in waves of despair and anguish of loneliness. First, these feelings is difficult to understand: whether it is an attack of hormonal storms, or recovery cycle is accompanied by such a vague feeling.
But then, when it becomes unbearable, the beautiful woman is aware of all it would be much easier if the next was the one with whom to communicate interesting. But husbands at work, friends are busy, grandparents far. Or conversely, relatives nearby, but not enough to communicate with them. And it also leads to a sense of isolation.
Proved that for the personal development of Russian women often need to communicate, which gives her a sense of psychological comfort. That is why a beautiful woman is perceived isolated life so painful and she has an acute discomfort.
As the sense of isolation affects the child
By the way, how the sense of isolation affects a person, you can see by watching your own child. Imagine that a child is playing and all of a sudden, for no apparent reason, begins to cry. If parents once take him up, gently talking to him, that is, make it clear that they love it, baby calms down quickly. If mom and dad do not understand the behavior of the baby, angry, baby, without having an emotional response, is under stress. A kid can make a second attempt. If he finds that parents are more responsive to it, then feel much more confident.
What kind of tricks? So the kid draws the attention to get her share of love and talk to people dear to him. Such an ability to attract the attention of parents and test them for the love of self is seen in children from three months. Expect it.
Every Russian woman, whether consciously or not. attaches great importance to relations. When she feels lack of communication, a sense of isolation. In real life, this feeling comes in those moments when a person, adult or child suffering from bad treatment, for example, when the opinion is ignored, not to hear his words, and in the relationship through the cold. Such situations arise periodically in any communication, but in sincere relations sense of isolation does not cause serious problems.
If my mother sitting at home with the child, there is acute sense of isolation, and it is constant, it has one option - to actively conduct themselves and be more proactive in dealing with people. It is important to carefully select for your circle of friends and friendly people always ready to help.
Pay attention to your relationship with your husband
If the spouses, there is a deep connection, they have a common interest and a sense of emotional intimacy, it gives each of them a sense of value and worth. And the men and beautiful women at once there are forces for an operation. even for the routine.
Conversely, when dealing with partners, is problematic, there is a feeling of depression. It pursues long until the conflict is resolved. But when the communication between the partners established. they feel more confident in dealing with other people, there is a desire to establish new contacts and to deal with them in every way.
In general, look closely to that. what is happening between you and their spouses. Sometimes, beautiful women are trying to "escape * in contact with her friends, reading women's novels or to work, not to think of the urgent family problems. But it is very important to face the truth, and, quite possibly, your main occupation in this period is to improve the relationship between you.
